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Welcome to the new Chinese Lair!

Sunday, 15 August 2010 00:00 Last Updated on Monday, 16 August 2010 12:16 Written by HighSide

Hey everyone, this is Highside, your friendly local admin.

As I'm sure you've noticed, I've updated the website to a new look and feel (again)! Most notably, we are expanding our focus to cover the lair community needs of all Chinese (Mandarin and Cantonese) speaking cities, staring with Beijing, Shanghai and Hong Kong, and possibly rolling out to more cities as necessary. You can keep using the www.beijinglair.com website but most of the links there will redirect to the new www.chineselair.com URL now.

ShanghaiLair.com and HongKongLair.com are also online now!

If you have any suggestions, please email me at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it and I'll see what I can do to fix any issues or add any new features. In the meanwhile, if you have any friends in other Chinese cities, let them know and direct them here!

About the Chinese Lair

Monday, 19 April 2010 06:50 Last Updated on Monday, 16 August 2010 12:10 Written by HighSide

Who are we?

The Chinese Lair is a dating and relationship group, a community for men in Chinese speaking cities to gather to discuss issues related to women and pickup. We are now a national lair, originally starting as the Beijing Lair and now spanning most major cities in China. We are a part of the "pickup and seduction" community and seek self-improvement through interactions with each other and with women. Whether your goal is to build social skills, discuss pickup strategies, meet new friends, or just go out and lay as many women as possible, you are welcome here. This is a very positive and friendly community and we are eager to meet new members and to help you achieve your personal goals. The discussion forum is an excellent way to reach out to members in the Beijing community to share stories, ideas, and organize events.

 

Our goals

Our community seeks to improve the quantity and quality of our interactions with women. We take a positive approach and believe that these goals are best achieved through self improvement. We do not condone nor believe that blatant lying and manipulative behavior is an appropriate way to attract the opposite sex. We respect women and believe that success with women means that both parties benefit and neither feels deceived. A woman should be swept away by a pool of emotions, not a sea of bullshit.

The skills we wish to foster and develop include charisma, charm, wit, confidence, fashion, and humor. Whether you are looking for many nights of passion with many various women or looking for your future wife, becoming a better, more attractive man, is key. Developing these social skills will help not only with women but also in your everyday life.

 

What we are not

We do not endorse or condone any illegal activity! We take a very strong stance against rape, violence, abuse (verbal, physical, or psychological), and drug use. If you are the guy who likes to get girls beyond drunk to take them home, we ask that you reexamine your behavior and you are not welcome here. Any member displaying such behavior is subject to expulsion from the group.

Don't Be That Guy

Wednesday, 21 July 2010 14:34 Written by HighSide

Just don't. For the sake of everyone!

 

Yes, she's heard it a million times before and just because you can say it in Mandarin, it still doesn't count!

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